This magnet on my refrigerator makes me laugh every time I notice it.* Why? Because the rest of the Oscar Wilde quote is ... "Others, whenever they go."
Is it OK for Mary Engelbreit to change the context to fit her creative needs? You tell me.
*Have you ever noticed how quickly things become invisible? We get so used to our surroundings -- including people -- that we don't see them. It takes an effort to really see your world. It's worth the effort.