When Eva and I go to the casinos, we consider it a "win" if we put 9 cents in a slot machine and get 5 cents back.
We won 5 cents! Yes!
You may think our definition is ridiculous. I'd be hard-pressed to argue. But what really matters is that you just gained a better understanding of us, and how we approach a night out.
Now, take that concept and apply it at home and at work. People aren't dictionaries. We all define things differently -- from infidelity to creativity to love.
So don't just laugh at the question. Ask it. How do you define ... ?